What does it mean to find yourself, and what are 5 steps to being ‘found’?

The concept of finding yourself is an interesting one. It is referred to in many 90s films and often depicted by a woman who is exasperated with her love life. She makes a journey (usually to somewhere tropical e.g. Eat, Pray, Love) in order to 'find herself'. Even most Disney films are a journey of… Continue reading What does it mean to find yourself, and what are 5 steps to being ‘found’?

Self-Actualization: How negative thoughts can affect your work and life.

I am at a turning point in my life where I need to re-assess my character. A 'rebirth' would be an accurate description. The theme of this rebirth is self-actualization. Let me explain. I am a pessimist who often is unable to think positively about certain situations or circumstances. I have constant anxiety about attaining goals that I… Continue reading Self-Actualization: How negative thoughts can affect your work and life.

9 months after the break-up, I still feel heartbroken.

I once thought that being alone and never having some love you was the worst kind of emotional pain you could experience. Until I experienced what loss of love was. I wish I could say it was a dramatic break-up. It wasn't. It happened with the silent nod of a head, a soft caress of… Continue reading 9 months after the break-up, I still feel heartbroken.

3 different Anime series that explore self-love abstractly.

Hello there. As late as it is, my creative juices were flowing. and could not be stopped. Self-love is an interesting concept that I have only recently come to terms with. Even then, I am still learning and evolving as a human. Over the years anime has been a big part of who I am,… Continue reading 3 different Anime series that explore self-love abstractly.